The Power of Giving Massage: A Path to Relaxation and Energy Balance
- Brian Riley LMT
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Did you know that giving a massage can be just as relaxing as receiving one? As someone who champions both sides of the massage experience, I can tell you that the act of giving massage has been one of the most powerful forms of meditation I have ever encountered. The way energy flows, focuses, and balances between two people during a massage is truly remarkable. Join me in exploring this powerful craft through my mens wellness group, INTOUCHMEN.
How Giving Massage Became My Meditation
When I first started learning massage, I was mostly focused on receiving. Like many men, I saw massage as a way to relax and relieve tension. But as I began to give massages, I noticed something unexpected. The process of giving massage required me to be fully present, to focus my energy, and to connect deeply with another person’s body and needs.
This focus created a meditative state. My mind quieted, and my hands moved with intention and care. The energy between me and the person I was working on felt like a conversation without words. This balance of giving and receiving energy became a powerful form of mindfulness that I hadn’t experienced before.
The Energy Flow in Mens Massage
Massage is more than just physical touch. It’s about energy flow and balance. When you give a massage, you are not only working on muscles and tissues but also on the subtle energy systems of the body. This is especially true in mens massage, where the focus often includes releasing stored tension and stress unique to men’s bodies.
By learning to sense and guide this energy, you can help someone else feel more grounded and relaxed. At the same time, you experience a sense of calm and centeredness yourself. This mutual exchange creates a powerful connection and a shared sense of wellness.
Teaching and Learning the Craft of Giving Massage
Over the years, I have developed a passion for teaching men how to give massage. I offer one-on-one tutorials and group workshops designed to help men learn and refine their skills. These sessions cover the basics of touch, energy flow, and practical techniques that anyone can use.
One of the most rewarding parts of teaching is watching men grow from simply receiving massages to becoming confident givers. This shift opens up new ways to connect with others and deepen their own mens wellness journey.
Join INTOUCHMEN: A Community for Men Who Want to Learn
If you have come to see me in the past and are interested in learning how to give massage, I invite you to consider joining my mens wellness group, INTOUCHMEN. This is a carefully curated group of men who have shown a growing interest in massage—not just as receivers but as practitioners.
On January 17th, from 10 am to 1 pm I am running my next beginners basic workshop in Montclair NJ, that covers the basics of all things touch. It’s a great opportunity to start or deepen your practice in a supportive environment. Spaces are limited to keep the group focused and personal, so if you’re interested, please reach out soon.
What You Can Expect from the Workshop
Hands-on practice with guided techniques
Understanding the flow of energy during massage
Learning how to create a relaxing atmosphere
Tips on how to communicate and connect through touch
Building confidence in your ability to give a meaningful massage
A fun, nude, body-positive, sensual good time, yes there will be erections.
This workshop is designed specifically for men who want to explore the power of touch as a tool for wellness and connection. You will be giving and receiving touch with other attendees, this is not a sexual workshop, yet it is sensual.
Why Mens Wellness Matters
Mens wellness often gets overlooked in conversations about health and self-care. Yet, touch and massage can play a vital role in reducing stress, improving circulation, and enhancing emotional balance. By learning to give massage, men can take an active role in their own wellness and the wellness of those around them.
Being part of a group like INTOUCHMEN also provides a space to share experiences, ask questions, and support each other’s growth. It’s about building a community where men feel safe to explore and express their needs through touch.
Once You Attend
You will be welcomed into the group and will have access to our fun Retreats, Workshops, and our famous Bodywork Trade Nights. Reach out for more details.